Hi there! Looking for executive leadership coaching? You’re in the right place!

I’m Mike Gosling

Feeling overwhelmed and stressed out by difficult relationships at work and at home? That was me 25+ years ago – full of dreams, but unaware of the impact of my behaviour on others and how to develop meaningful connections at work, improve my emotional intelligence, and reduce the effects of stress felt in my body. 

Fast forward to today. I focus on behavioural coaching — that’s all I know. I help leaders — CEOs, C-Level executives, senior managers, and business owners — achieve positive, lasting change in emotional intelligence and leadership behaviour.

Now I’m excited to pass on the steps I took to increase my understanding of my own emotions and the emotions of others (and ADHD/ASD traits where applicable), and change my annoying behaviours to increase my influence and improve performance. 

I’ve built a system to support leaders in fostering productive relationships in the workplace by leveraging heightened emotional intelligence and communication skills enabling them to engage more effectively with stakeholders.

It’s just a step by step system driven by the same vision that you hold … to make a difference, to be a better person, and build the right relationships at work. 

I help leaders challenge overwork, rediscover their purpose, feel at ease with their relationships at work and at home, and rebalance their lives to beat chronic stress. 

Stress comes typically not from the volume of work you have to accomplish, but from how you feel about yourself and others and the relationships you experience with the people around you.

Executive leadership coaching relieves stress.

Growth and effectiveness are intimately tied to the quality of our peer relationships. When engaging with trusted equals, people see us more fully and speak to us more freely.

I am accredited in Marshall Goldsmith’s Stakeholder Centered Coaching. [ View my profile. ] Marshall’s approach of feedfoward — the process of replacing positive or negative feedback with future-oriented solutions or focusing on the future instead of the past — together with measurable improvements in emotional intelligence and behaviour through online assessments and one-on-one coaching, provides guaranteed and measurable leadership growth.

The Global Leadership 360 Assessment (GLA) by your stakeholders at the middle and end of your coaching assignment measures which behaviours are your strengths and which are high-potential areas for growth.

The process enables motivated successful leaders to be more effective through positive change in behaviour that is sustained and recognised by others.

Researchers from TalentSmart have found that 90 per cent of society’s high-performers have an elevated EQ (EI) – and they earn nearly $30,000 more every year on average. 

Analysis shows that the road to higher income is paved with the quality of your relationships.

Testing has also shown that emotional intelligence is the strongest predictor of high performance and explains 58% of your success. 

For example, Gallup has found that the emotional intelligence of leaders directly correlates to employee tenure and productivity, with most employees caring more about their relationship with their boss more than their salary. 

Emotional intelligence is a key ingredient in successful executive leadership coaching and can be developed through practice. 

Improved EI could make you a higher salary per year as compared to people with lower levels of emotional intelligence, if that is your goal.

What if you could control your environment through executive leadership coaching so it triggered your most desired behaviour?

As an executive educator and emotional intelligence coach, I help people understand how our beliefs and the environments we operate in can trigger negative behaviours. 

Through simple and practical advice, I help people achieve and sustain lasting positive behavioural change. 

I help motivated successful leaders master communication and emotional intelligence skills faster to build the right relationships at work and become effective leaders in your environment.

Today’s technological advancements, globalisation, and the constant media stream make modern work feel like a never-ending flow of tasks and responsibilities. 

But that is all the more reason why we need to take the time and space to rest, breathe, and change our environment.

Through executive leadership coaching I assist leaders to cultivate strong workplace relationships.

I give you the clarity, courage, and tools you need to build the right relationships using my 5-phase system for behavioural change, applying Marshall Goldsmith’s eight steps to engage with stakeholders: Ask, Listen, Think, Thank, Respond, Involve, Change, and Follow Up.

It’s the same secrets I’ve used to help CEO’s, C-Level Executives, VP’s, Directors, Senior Managers, and Business Owners from barely clinging on to a failing job or business and now giving them emotional control, undeniable confidence, and the empathy of an approachable, consistent leader skilled in emotional intelligence for much better relationships at work and at home.

And I’m the one person that successful leaders in frustrating unhappy positions at work come to… when nothing else in their personal development has worked out for them.

Leadership is relationship. Leadership is about conviction. A leader’s duty is to your people – to do what is fundamentally right to do for your people. Leadership is acting with emotional intelligence toward others with conviction to build right relationships at work and at home.

In executive leadership coaching I do one thing well and one thing only. And this one thing I do is – help leaders build the right relationships at work fast without them spending a massive amount of time and money attending expensive courses and seminars to solve their issue.

Your problem is you are struggling with personal and professional challenges, wanting to be a better person and colleague to build right relationships, BUT never achieving real change.

You want massively improved communication and influence in your workplace to build trust, but you procrastinate. You keep telling yourself that you’re too busy and haven’t got time for coaching.

You continually question your own performance, feel angry, anxious, or stressed about your perceived failure of leadership, and never achieve your desired promotion or income goals.

You see… If you are a leader who currently is reactive and impatient, or avoidant and anxious, toward people, they will pick up quickly that you don’t want to be disturbed or more likely see you as being unapproachable, which reduces their trust in you. 

This does not match up with what you want to be or how you want to be seen.

You want to be seen as a good leader, fair, generous, kind, and approachable. 

So, learn how to put a “gap” between your perception and your response to all events you encounter so you can choose to respond positively.

You must be an authentic, open, approachable, empathic, and consistent leader as this wins back trust among others with whom you connect and helps build quality relationships.

“How do I do that?” I hear you asking. I can help – this is what I do.

Using executive leadership coaching your goal must be to become an effective transformative and influential leader skilled at forming and sustaining strong relationships at work through improved communication and emotional intelligence skills.

These vital skills gain you self-awareness, trust, respect, inclusion, and open communication to improve productivity and team performance.

Transformative leaders know how to encourage, inspire, and motivate employees to perform in ways that create meaningful change and results. They remain optimistic (hopeful and confident) about their future goals and are skilled at giving meaning to the tasks at hand.

Influential leaders strongly influence the course of events. They are keenly aware of their own patterns of behaviour so they are able to effectively manage their own inner voice, emotions, conflicts, and the emotions of others.

Be warned… Working out how to put effective transformative influential leadership together from scratch can take months, even years, of trial and error and hours of Googling… 

… with my leadership coaching you’ll get all the information you need in one neat little package along with my personal support.

We’ll work together quickly and closely to get you your desired goal!

I’ve packed all the learning from my 28 years of  business experience, emotional intelligence education, professional teaching, and coaching into The Emotional Leader System.

Just so you don’t have to go through this quagmire alone or spend months making mistakes. So, you can stop thinking about resigning now or being let go.

We can fix this! Here’s how…

Mike is the only executive leadership coach in the world to promise you the right relationships at work within 90-days by mastering communication and emotional intelligence skills… or he’ll work with you until you do.

The Executive Leadership Coaching Program:

My executive leadership coaching program, The Emotional Leader System (TELS), is multi-layered. By focusing on the leader engaging with their Stakeholders through effective communication guided by your coach, and building your emotional intelligence to understand and manage personal and professional challenges, you become a better person and colleague.

The Emotional Leader System framework has 5 phases (see image) incorporating stakeholder centered coaching and is designed to ensure that by the end of the 24 weeks the coachees have successfully built the right reationships at work using improved emotional intelligence and new communication skills. 

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Marshall Goldsmith’s Stakeholder Centered Coaching is a highly effective and time efficient process emphasising implementation and follow-through.

This model is working with stakeholders guided by your coach applying Marshall’s eight steps: Ask, Listen, Think, Thank, Respond, Involve, Change, and Follow Up.

The Emotional Leader System can be used by anyone at any position and is not exclusively designed for leaders and executives. Once learned leaders can pass it on.

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So Who Am I?

So, who the heck am I and why should you trust me to teach you about how to build the right relationships at work fast through leadership performance consulting and take you from where you are to where you want to be?

Excellent question!

As an Executive Leadership Coach to 45 individual successful high-achieving leaders worldwide and educator and trainer to hundreds more in live seminars and corporate trainings, I have spent 28 years systemising and developing this Executive Leadership Coaching Blueprint.

All while working with clients one-on-one and spending over $150,000 on my BA (Acc), MBA and Ph.D. in emotional intelligence educational qualifications, books, seminars, workshops, online courses, and specialty training in three emotional intelligence psychometric assessments over this period of time, just to solve your specific problem of how to build the right relationships at work.

I am co-founder of Gosling International, my coaching and counselling organisation, where I teach a very simple but unique system to take your position to a whole new level, and stop exchanging your time for arguments, workplace disputes and complaints, and saying “sayonara” to leadership conflicts and personal doubts. 

My executive leadership coaching blueprint goes against many things you’ve been taught in “old school” models.

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I have been an Executive Leadership Coach in my own practice since 1997 with my wife Karen, an experienced specialist Marriage and ADHD/ASD counsellor, based in Singapore and Australia working with clients worldwide in emotional intelligence, leadership coaching, psychology, and cognitive-behavioural therapy. 

I became a Marshall Goldsmith Certified Executive Coach in 2004.

I have extensive knowledge of business and business practice. Prior to running my own business, I was for many years a senior manager in manufacturing and retail, company and certified practising accountant, and university academic in accounting, finance, and entrepreneurship in Australia and Singapore. 

My coaching style is engaging and interactive, encouraging the participation of stakeholders, teaching/explaining elements of the process, and providing general personal support and advice where required. If you search for my name in Google, you’ll find many entries for my work.

I’m a world-renowned expert in applying emotional intelligence for leadership success and author of two books: Emotional Leadership. Using emotionally intelligent behaviour to enjoy a life of EASE and EmotionMatters. How To Reduce Your Stress And Achieve Wellness.

So, looking for someone who knows what they’re talking about when it comes to best-practice leadership coaching via online practice resources and one-on-one coaching?

You’ve come to the right place. And I’m on a mission to get you to build the right relationships at work.

More on that later, but for now, keep reading to learn more…

Achieving positive lasting change in behaviour

Executive leadership coaching helps successful leaders get even better – by achieving positive, lasting change in behaviour: for themselves, their people and their teams.

I teach you to be the perfect communicator, to thoroughly equip you for having influential relationships at work. I help you engage with your stakeholders. 

I prepare you for character changes so you take what you know and learn and apply it in your life.

I show you the opportunity I give you to apply your emotional intelligence to any situation at work or at home. 

Your new character will come from your belief in The Emotional Leader System process that helps you address challenges, develop new skills, take on new roles, and can earn you $30,000 more every year on average. 

You recognise what is important and needed for your growth and personal development. 

You know what you are not good at and why you fail to grow your business or get promoted. 

You have access here today to the knowledge, skills, and “hands-on” support from me that you know are important and needed to be the transformative influential leader you want to be.

But you have to reach out and put them into play, put them into practice. 

New skills learned from strategic leadership development will surpass your hesitancy to act.

Interested? I offer you a free leadership coaching session (no strings attached), to help you become a transformative influential leader step by step so you can build the right relationships at work fast.

If it’s a fit, we can discuss how I can help. If not, you will have gained actionable insights about how to be a better person and colleague and build strong meaningful relationships that improve performance.

I guarantee this will be the best 15-minutes you spend on yourself this week.   

Book your free strategy session with me here.

Life is Good!
Mike Gosling
Executive Leadership Coach

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 MHS Certified Practitioner
Emotional Quotient-Inventory
8 August 2002

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7 December 2005

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MSCEIT™ Certified Practitioner
Mayer-Salovey-Caruso Emotional Intelligence Test™
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Marshall Goldsmith Certified Executive Coach
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